The name of the sales game is, “buy-in” and you being interesting and valuable enough so that your customers seek-you-out.
In a perfect world salespeople will much rather spend their valuable time working with in-bound opportunities as opposed to chasing them. But just because someone has made contact with you doesn’t necessarily make them the perfect opportunity.
People that seek-you-out are more likely to demonstrate deceptive behaviour regarding your offering. If you have read my new book, The Naked Salesman, or attended one of my sales training programs you would have heard me speak about the damaging effects that “crazy customers” impart on salespeople and businesses. These are people who pretend to be customers but, in fact, never will be. They dissolve time and distract you from giving attention and affection to your “real” and most valuable customers.








The number of calls you make per sale depends on the level of buy-in your customer has. The risk associated with what you are selling. And the approach you apply for each conversation. 
Down-selling is the art of narrowing a customer’s expectations and matching them more effectively with a solution that best fulfils their needs or desires.
Well that depends on your definition of success.
I was recently car shopping for a 4WD for my partner, Kellie. Searching for a good deal we went into two competing dealers situated not far from each other.
In business I meet plenty of salespeople who seem busy, but only a few who are truly effective.
Can you be a “star” all the time ― shining and twinkling high above everyone else, every day? I think a few remarkable people can, but much more attainable for most is being a “star” some of the time.